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If you recognize these kinds of people in your life, it can be difficult to know what to do. Giving up a friend is never easy, but neither are the reckless financial habits some of them can encourage. Here are a few examples of financially dangerous friends and how to handle them.

1.) Party every night

It’s great to blow off steam with friends or coworkers at a happy hour every once in awhile. The chance to cut loose and catch up after a hard week of work is a real treat. The key word here, though, is “occasional.” Some friends may struggle with that word.

When your friends want to turn every night into an “epic” one and they want you to come along to dinner, drinks, movies, concerts, and other expensive outings, costs add up quickly. Even a $20 bar bill every night can drain more than $5,000 out of your savings in a year! Without being rude, what can you do?

First, try suggesting lower-cost alternatives. Instead of drinking at a bar, you and your friends could go running at a park or play tennis at the gym. These are less costly than sitting around with drinks — and they’re healthier options too! If drinks are the order of the day, look for “BYOB” events that will let you have fun without breaking the bank. You can also volunteer to be the designated driver, keeping your friends safe and saving money along the way.

Second, set firm limits. When you do decide to go out with the “party animal” in your group of friends, develop an exit strategy in advance. It’s not rude to have one drink and call it a night. Your friends might hassle you about it, but true friends will respect your boundaries.

2.) The sales friend

It can be painful to watch a friend get sucked into a pyramid scheme or multi-level marketing arrangement. They invite you over for a fun get-together, and the next thing you know, some stranger is selling you expensive Tupperware or overpriced (and perhaps under performing) nutritional supplements. You know there’s no official pressure to buy, but this is your friend’s new business and you want to be supportive.

Worse yet, some people get suckered into selling low-quality financial products like high-commission life insurance or annuities. They expect you to trust their financial wisdom because you are friends. If you do, you could end up hurting your current finances and putting your retirement at risk.

The best thing you can do in these instances is just say “no.” Of course, “no” doesn’t have to be direct. You can be too busy to go to a product party, or too broke to buy anything once you’re there. When it comes to financial services, be proactive so you can say you’ve got those needs managed.

3.) Friends who borrow money

There’s nothing more heartbreaking than a friend in financial need, and there’s nothing that can jeopardize a friendship faster than lending to a friend. Unfortunately, there’s no easy way out of this situation. Just say “no” to friends who ask for a loan.

There’s no guarantee that you’ll ever get paid back, and even if you do, you won’t earn any interest on the money. The debt will linger over the relationship and create an uncomfortable tension between you and your friend. You might also have a sudden need for the money, and not be able to get access it in a hurry, forcing you to become the needy friend to someone else!

That doesn’t mean you have to leave them high and dry. You can help them in ways that don’t involve a handout. For example, you can tell them about Personal Loans from established lenders like UNITED SA. They may not realize there’s an alternative to high-interest credit card debt besides begging from friends and family. Pointing them in the direction of resources that can help them can get them out of a bind without harming your friendship.

SOURCES:
moneycrashers.com/why-you-should-not-lend-money-to-friends-and-family/
christianpf.com/dear-friend-mlm/
gobankingrates.com/personal-finance/how-save-money-out-with-friends/
forbes.com/sites/jrose/2017/02/21/7-signs-your-friends-could-wreck-your-finances/#7f621f4b4c3c

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